As some of you know, my wife and I have ended our relationship of 20 years. We still love each other very much and we're dedicated to making sure that we both come out of this divorce in one piece. There have been no fights and no disagreements. We just realized that we've grown into very different people and we're no longer able to give each other what we need.

In August, I'm moving out of our home, so she can stop staying with friends and have the house to herself. But moving is expensive and with these past months being as stressful as they have been, I've not been super productive. A lot of crying and trying to navigate the dust storm that is currently my life.

I'm embarrassed to ask, but if I can trouble you for even a small amount of help, it'd genuinely save me. Where I'm moving to is inexpensive and safe, but it's far. So the initial cost of everything is turning out to be quite high and... well I'm terrified.